My daughter is 10. Should she attend her uncle’s memorial service ?

Most 10-year-olds are ready for this type of experience, as long as they are accompanied by a parent or someone else close to them. If you decide to let her attend, prepare your daughter by letting her know what the service involves and address any questions she may have. It's worth noting that some communities and faiths choose to use an open casket for their funeral services. If you don't feel comfortable having your daughter view an open casket, skip the viewing and simply attend the service. This is also an opportunity to teach your daughter how to write a sympathy note.

Creating a permanent memorial to a loved one can not only help with the bereavement process but it also provides a place that you can visit at any time in the future to see your loved one.

You can create an online tribute to your loved one here at Friends At Rest. It takes a couple of minutes, is completely free and will give you a 'place' to reflect and remember the great times you shared.

Everyone knows somebody who deserves to be remembered. Click here and remember yours.

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